1/07/2016

Starting Over in 2016


I missed you so much! I missed blogging, I missed writing, I missed creating fashion, I missed practically everything that relates to blogging but the one thing I missed the most is my wonderful friends who come here daily to take in and experience what I have shared.


Where was I?


Let's go back to 2013 after I came back from my Germany trip. That was one of the highest peaks of my blogging life. When I came back home I started feeling an immense pressure to up my content game, do something different, generally just make a change on my whole blogging experience. The pressure was all from within me. Since I couldn't figure out what to do with my blog I ended up having a slight resentment for blogging.

I did still continue blogging though I was not 100% passionate about my work. I then got pregnant and that bred the perfect excuse to avoid my blog. It was such a bother to me and I was happy being away from it. I initially thought that once I gave birth it would all change but it didn't, I had to deal with my post baby body.

Later in 2014 I started doing makeup videos on YouTube as I prepared to launch my blog in January of 2015. Once I did, it felt foreign to me. If you read my blog last year you definitely noticed a difference in content and my attitude as well. I removed my comment box, I stopped writing completely and I deleted 99% of my blog posts. I had well over 1000 posts and now I have less than 30.

Fast forward to April of 2015 and I decided to shut down my blog completely, deleted all my social media accounts as well. I figured if I was going to give out mediocre content, it wasn't worth having a blog at all. I literally tried to rid myself off the internet.(which is kind of impossible). At this point my friends thought I was crazy, my mom, my spouse, my readers...but I had made up my mind and nothing was going to change it.

 I watched a speech done by Lauryn Hill back in 2000 and here's a quote that I felt explains the rut I was in.



I cannot create and not live. I cannot be in this vacuum of creativity without life.

We're all trying to get to this next level without the next level finding us.

Life is peaks and valleys and some people explain it as good times and bad times but I actually think it's learning and mastership or study and mastership.

I went from the top of one mountain, (and) I’ve mastered something and people appreciated it. Once you’ve been on top on that mountain, you have to go down, but people are like, ‘I’m not moving….I’m the master, I’m great, I’m dope, I’m here, I’ve arrived, I’m not going anywhere!

That’s when you stay stuck…

On one hill, one mountain.

God’s intention is that we study and master a bunch of things. So here i am descending this hill and everybody is like “where are you going, we’re supposed to be on top of the hill?”

But it’s definitely an exciting time for me because I’m at the foot of another hill. This hill is totally different and navigated differently, but i get to learn. Once you learn and you go through that, you’re on the top of another one.

I would encourage everyone to never be afraid of not knowing…find out because that’s how you get to mastership.

Let’s not be mediocre in our greatness.

Think big, and think in doses, and think in experiences and don’t be afraid of experiences that teach you.


I'm a firm believer in reinventing yourself every once in a while, I also believe in re-branding yourself to fit your current personality. The Fashion Notebook is something I came up with 6 years ago and it was about time to let it go and move on to something fresh and new. The domain name has changed as well from nanciemwai.com to nanciemwai.co.ke.

This blog will cover more than just fashion, I've added a lifestyle bit which will cover practically anything outside fashion from food to fitness to random human interest articles. I've always been passionate about vlogging so I'll do that as well. I have a lot of ideas and you'll see them slowly pop up as the weeks progress but I would also love to hear what ideas you have for this new blog.  After all, you are a driving force behind all of this! Feel free to leave a comment below.

I love you.

Nancie


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55 comments

  1. I love this and I am BEYOND excited to have you back. We missed you. The blog looks AMAZING! It was worth waiting for!

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  2. Lyz Liz1/07/2016

    I had missed you. Yeah, i missed the blogs. ALOT. Glad you are back!

    Love right back.

    Lyz.

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  3. Maureen Areba1/07/2016

    Welcome back Nancie!

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  4. Glad to have you back. I had missed my daily dose of inspiration. Hugs and Kisses

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  5. Good Content..Love the blog new look!

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  6. Karibu... We have missed you. We do not judge you. I think it would be impossible not to blog your closes friends are bloggers and the industry was not willing g to let go. You have come a long way and I love where you are headed. We were distraught when you went MIA from Instagram.

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  7. Sophia riziki1/07/2016

    I'm so freakin happy you're back!!!! Woooo hooo

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  8. Wendy Wakhusama1/07/2016

    This is great Nancie, so excited for you!! Love this quote..
    "God’s intention is that we study and master a bunch of things. So here i am descending this hill and everybody is like “where are you going, we’re supposed to be on top of the hill?” But it’s definitely an exciting time for me because I’m at the foot of another hill. This hill is totally different and navigated differently, but i get to learn. Once you learn and you go through that, you’re on the top of another one."

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  9. Woohoo You're back to blogging! We missed you! Love the new site

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  10. I thought you are crazy when you started deleting posts and the way your blog had mileage. I noticed a change in your content after you started doing videos and not long after that you were gone. It is great to have you back.

    I am following your fitness journey and this blog and I know you will do great things!

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  11. I'm so happy you're back and with such a fresh new outlook too! You were dearly missed in the blogosphere and I can't wait for your new posts. Welcome back Nancie.

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  12. I'm so giddy over here waiting to see what you have in store.. Happy 2016

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  13. And the queen has spoken. I am glad you have found what makes you happy and am looking forward to what you have in store. And please don't feel shy on serving some fashion realness as usual

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  14. Glad to have you back..

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  15. Michelle1/07/2016

    Ahhh Nancie, I'm so happy for you. I almost shed tears this morning when I saw that you launched your blog. I can't explain how happy I am. Congratulations on this new journey. Happy 2016 <3

    Love
    Michelle

    http://twenty7bymichelle.com/

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  16. Glad to have you back!Loving the new look of your blog!

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  17. Welcome back.... ;)

    www.wanjiruwangethe.me.ke

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  18. that extract spoke volumes to me! i guess this is something i needed to hear as I have been somewhere similar for a little too long!! Glad to have you back!! I look forward to reading your posts! Lots of Love! xx

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  19. I was literally counting down the days and this was worth the wait! I recall looking on when the blog was morphing last year, from the no commenting option to the photo only posts. I'm glad you'e figured out what direction to take now and that you've chosen to share it with us still. I sorely missed catching up on your latest fashion exploits and now with the new lifestyle section I can't wait! *rubs hands in anticipation*
    Here's to scaling new hills in 2016!

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  20. Welcome back Nancy. It's been a long time coming.

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  21. We missed ou Nancie....Welcome back.I love everything about this blog not to mean i didnt like the other one but this is sooooo cool...Have a blessed 2016

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  22. I am so proud of you and can't wait to read more articles. I wish you nothing but God's guidance and blessings xoxo

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  23. Nancie!!!! I could jump up, down and dance. I'm glad you are back, we've been here waiting.. and here you are finally. Can not wait for what's in store, looking forward to dozes over dozes of style inspiration. Happy 2016!

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  24. THE LADY WHO STARTED IT ALL ! :)
    We are glad that one of Kenya's first female fashion bloggers is back on the scene!
    Welcome back Nancie Mwai, we've missed you!

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  25. This post is just everything! i think im going through this at the moment...... thanks for this.

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  26. Welcome back.
    I was also wondering what was going on but now I know. Cant wait to read your content. And thank you for even taking your time to respond to my Facebook messages when I was trying to get a fashion styling apprenticeships with you,
    God bless you and wish you well.

    Happy new year!

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  27. Daniel Gaetano Mwima1/07/2016

    In owe of your creation, knowledge, work. Totally good stuff and I wish you nothing but sheer success.

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  28. Welcome back Nancie.
    Looking forward to the new mountain.

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  29. Ooh nancie my heart goes out to you. It's always hard to maneuver yourself out of a rut but I'm glad you did and I'm glad you shared your struggles because it tells us that it's okay to struggle internally and that it's okay to stop, search, strategize and start again. This just taught me that when life gets ahead of us we can slow down.. And switch back the momentum when we're ready. Love and love to you Nancie ????
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  30. Yeeey, couldn't be any happier for you, loved your content because it was genuine looking forward to many more Posts. Godspeed to you Nancie.

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  31. vanisha1/07/2016

    Aaaaw!and yaaaay!Welcome back love,God bless you through the journey..

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  32. The OG is back! *shangwe na vigelegele* You have been missed sana. *cue Mase* Welcome backkkk... ????

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  33. Doreen1/07/2016

    Doreen
    Finally!!!... youre back... am Buckled up and ready for this ride to gain Speed!!!

    p. s... thank you for the insightful Lauryn Hill poem

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  34. swabra swaleh1/07/2016

    you are beautiful.most especially inside.and your honesty in this post is refreshing.you changed,for the better,life has more depth for you now,and so the previous blog would not have sufficed.congratulations on your new venture.we are right behind you

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  35. Well i like the new page... always wondered how silent you'd become. Looking forward to your posts this year.

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  36. You were the first Kenyan Fashion Blogger I ever knew. You inspired many of us who are even now blogging as well. Glad you are back! Bigger and better ????

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  37. really loving the new website its beautiful looking forward to more

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  38. FINALLY!!!!!!!!!!!!Heh aki am not even excited ,am BEYOND IT!I am super super super stoked about your come back,almost feels like a prodigal daughter's return.Cheers to an amazing new journey????

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  39. I think this is talking to me too....being non thenfootnof one mountain will lead to the next top....
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  40. Welcome back! :-)
    The Lauryn Hill(LOVE HER!) speech = everything. spoke volumes to me.definitely one to always keep in mind for those dreadful "inbetween" phases. Thank you. :)
    Cheers to new beginnings for you and May God bless you. :)

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  41. You do know you are the mother of fashion blogging in Kenya & you've paved the way for all of us? Very happy to see you back. This new look is just perfect.

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  42. I loved you since high school, you made life easy for young girls like us. And your journey is inspiring . Thank you for opening doors to many upcoming bloggers . Blessings girl.????
    www.fashionfabled.com

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  43. I am extremely excited to see what your creative mind has for us.

    valentinembugua.com

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  44. Yvonne1/09/2016

    We love you too Nancie!Missed you in this streets.Looking forward to more make up tutorials.All the best in 2016

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  45. The greatest of all us are those who can stop and start again and make it feel like they never stopped in the first place.
    Welcome back my darling!
    www.JoyQuint.com

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  46. I am just happy you're back!!!

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  47. Gracem1/11/2016

    I kinda noticed all that distance you changed ypur ig to your shop. I randomly thought of you and i saw a new blogpost????????????????i have been following you since 2011 legit i remember your outfit posts with thrifted blazers from gikosh and pictures taken outside the auditorium ???? but i joined in 201 so i never met you. Anyyyway point is im so happy you are back. The website looks like a dream. Love it

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  48. Janette JJ1/11/2016

    I'm so inspired by this post especially since I relate to it. Happy you are back... You are still my best blogger...

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  49. I am so happy you are back and the piece from Lauryn Hill is very inspiring...looking forward to seeing more blogs and know that we will be here cheering you on as you 'climb this hill'

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  50. Sapiyon1/13/2016

    ???????????????????????????????????????? well in welcome back. Some of us are in that rut phase of finding what we need to do and what needs to change. Indeed change is inevitable

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  51. Joy Kendi1/14/2016

    Welcome back :)

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  52. Welcome back Nancie. Your honesty in this post is so refreshing and I particularly liked this "I also believe in re-branding yourself to fit your current personality". We are all going through changes and it is great that you're bold enough to talk about your journey. As you continue re-branding, we will support you. Kudos and I'll read each and every blog post without fail xx

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  53. YAY I'm glad you're back...I can totally identify sometimes all we need is a break. Welcome back XOXO

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  54. very relatable and inspiring

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